Hey VS54- You offer very good advice. Unfortunately, my WAS is heavily involved in a PA and says she is "in love". For all intents & purposes, we are separated, as she has not slept at home in a few weeks. Although my W is home from the job assignment and the OW lives in IL (we are in NJ), the OW does not have a job. That leaves her free to follow my W like a puppy dog, coming to NJ, looking for a job in NYC, and putting her house in IL on the market. :-( I am trying to wait this out, as I am sure it is going to blow up or fizzle, but my W is pushing for D.
Me: 50; Wife: 48 Gay; civil union in NJ no kids M: 15 years, together 17 Bomb (OW) 2/09 (EA 3mos/PA 3mos) ILYBINILWY W out of house, w/OW, in separation talks, nothing filed
