I told her she needed to stop calling me unless she wanted to come home and work on our relationship.
How many times are you going to say this to her? That type of comment IS NOT WORKING. STOP saying this to her...
Some people need a challenge to wake them up.
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She said why can't you just date some people and see how you feel about us?
BINGO. Sorry you don't see how important it is to take her up on her offer. She isn't coming back UNTIL she thinks you have found someone else that you like better.
Nothing else to tell you. If you don't value yourself enough to walk away from a woman like this then I can't help you. If I were you I would be off having social interaction with some hot looking women. I have found that to work far far better than the apporoach you keep trying. At some point I think I would have to admit to myself that telling her again and again that she needs to come home isn't working in the least.
Maybe you are addicted to this drama huh?
You will immediately come out of this and feel soooooo much better when you decide you want to be with a woman who can give you all of herself. They ARE out there. You just refuse to see them.
