Divorce in my state grace is REALLY f'd up. You have to find fault with the other person and point a finger, thus, creating anger from the get go. You can separate, but, if your are the money maker, this can be a financial hardship AND the divorce can drag on.

Divorce sucks grace...but living with lack of trust, infidelity and lack of commitment, etc...IMO..can be worse over time by being emotionally destructive. Fear keeps many of us here. Truly...you really must take a hard look at yourself for remaining with someone who cheats and tells you they don't love you anymore.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;