Got this email back from H.

I'm gutted. Not about the concert, I don't really care about that, about the last paragraph - the highlighted bit in particular. I know he is acting like a 'friend' with me but I'm not sure I am strong enough to do this. To hear stuff like that is painful. It feels like he is recreating the life we had. Apart from things are never right are they, first it was the job - he left, then it was me and the new job was 'it' and he left me, then it was the job again and he left that. I hope the pattern continues but maybe this time it will be right. Am I supposed to wish him well?????


'Hi, sorry it's taken me so long to reply! Have had a really busy week. I'm looking after ... complex while the normal manager is on leave so it's been pretty busy! Still really enjoying it though.

Your idea sounds really lovely but I'm afraid I've already got tickets to that show. It was a really nice thought though. Maybe we could go to a different one? I was there on Tuesday actually to see Firebird. The place hasn't changed at all... And neither have the staff! I saw two head stewards - ... and ...!! They both looked like a pair of idiots.

How are you settling in anyway? Hope Maple is behaving herself. I have decided to move too, just to another flat in ... Going to get a cat I think! By the way do you need a broadband router? I have a spare one now!

H.'

Am I supposed to 180 to that and say that is great?? It would not be real for me to do that in anyway. I know a lot of this DB stuff is fake it till you make it etc but that goes against my core to wish him well to that.


M- May 2006
D - Aug 2010
Now travelling the world