That's sad Bbj and unfortunately puts more weight on your shoulders. I keep telling my kids we are alright the way we are and life is wonderful and that I will keep them safe no matter what. I guess all kids feel insecure when one parent takes off, especially when it is the father.
What happened with proceeding with the divorce? Did Dane ver talked to the Pastor?
Stay strong sis, as John said, we are responsible for our lives. K