Serenity, there's a idiom - "it never rains but it pours."
Bad (or good) things do not just happen a few at a time, but in large numbers all at once.
Bummer - but they happen. What's important is the way you look at them, prioritize them and deal with them.
And thank goodness this deluge doesn't happen all the time.
Question - Serenity, did this lot happen all at once or were they allowed to grow and grow?
So. What to do. What to do.
Well they're not going to go away by themselves so you're going to have to roll your sleeves up and hit 'em one at a time.
My 2c worth - from Learned Optimism -
Bad events are temporary setbacks Isolated to particular circumstances Can be overcome by my effort and abilities
Sweets, please stop thinking about all the "does he doesn't he crud", "why this and that crud" and all the other crud that you just won't find answers for. Dedicate that freed up energy (and I know you've got lots of that) in dealing with things you DO have control over.
Take the bull by the horns. Check the things you listed in your previous post. Nail them. Chat with someone who has a sympathetic ear. Or do it here.
There are some very wide shoulders waiting for you.
