Hi Dia. I just finished catching up on your sitch. I lost about 30 lbs when H started his shennanigans. Wish I could have kept it off! It was one of the silver linings! If the life shortening stress wasnt the cause I would have been all for it!

It sounds like you are doing well. I was glad to see that your H included you in his health ins plan. I wonder if maybe the thought of you taking care of him as far as that goes was just too much. Maybe it wasnt ALL about him wanting to be independant.

I do understand his statement though. While I want to stay M, and work things out with H, its very important to me to be well positioned so Im not floundering if he pulls the rug out from under me, so becoming financially independant, having my own car ins, health ins, etc. are all goals for me.

I got the DVD "Coraline" today, Im going to watch that, as far as dinner goes, I have no idea, nothing sounds good! Weekends are hard for me, I dont have to work and I have too much time on my hands, its when I miss H the most. Hopefully I can go fishing tomorrow! I got the book "Hope for the Separated" recently, its a christian based book, and Im not that religious, but Im hoping that it will have some good info, Lord know I need all the hope I can get right now!

I hope that you enjoy the rest of your night!

I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...