It really bothered me that W was basically crying on my shoulder about being worried about how much the van was going to cost to repair today. I wanted to help her, but at the same time, I knew that offering would get me no more than where I have been so far. So I didn't. But it also bothered me that she was worried about money after her decision to do this. She makes almost twice what I make and is going to tell me her worries about money.
I didn't want this. My kids didn't want this. She chose this. And she is going to tell me she is worried about money. I love her more than anything. And I would help her out in any situation. But she is going to have to ask. I am not just going to extend help anymore.
If I am making it with roughly half of what she makes, I just don't want to hear it.
I'm just frusturated from the earlier conversation we had.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
