Isn't it interesting how reality gets turned around on to you?
My X did the same thing by saying I was controlling while she is the one that is the control freak and it has been coming out clearly first w/the D and now that we're "co-parenting."
Distorted reality for sure.
The key is for you to try not to let yourself get "gaslighted" into thinking that you really are the problem. It is easy to do as they are pretty clever and very good w/the words they use and their manipulation.
