Trying to cope with H, IA/EA (was Newbie-1st post)

[wolverine1997]

I have read much of that same book also. Thought it was good but not nearly as insightful as DR. I'm at a similar point with my wife, at what point do I give her an ultimatim. Their is no affair but a lot of other baggage. I feel the same way as you. I know that I deserve a better person than my wife. But I also know that this person right now is not my wife. I don't know if my wife will ever return. And at some point this all must come to a head.

So I guess you have to ask yourself when is enough, enough?