What to do when H doesn't contact?

[jon2911]

Lost,
Just caught up on both of your threads. There's really no way to know what's going on with him. All you can do is show up to the hearing looking confident and happy.

He needs to hit rock bottom, that story about drinking and driving is really scary. Your D absolutely did the right thing, so sorry that she's being dragged into all this.

There are a lot of toxic things happening to you right now. What are you doing to get rid of some of the negative emotions? This article from Michelle helped me a lot, especially the working out part:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/a_take_care_of_yourself.htm

When we keep telling you to take care of yourself, it's because that's all you can do right now. Things will get better!