he was back, i think

[bluerain]

I asked my H to not come to the house without letting me know, or when Im there. I told him that I didnt want to have to look around and see what he took everytime. I was prepared to change the locks, but he didnt do it again. I hated the feeling that he had been there, but was too much of a chicken chit to tell me.

I think that this is just another example of how you arent letting him push you around anymore. Good for you! Im sure that she isnt allowed to be in your home as per the protective order, right?