Been a busy couple of days at work, but good busy.

W and I will take the kids on a quick vacation on Sunday to Disney. We will stay with my in-laws on Sunday, then at Disney Mon and Tues nights.

When I got home tonight, W followed me down the hall, all the while talking to me about S acting up a little - nothing big. We stopped at the doorway to "my" room, and she stood really close to me - close enough to kiss. Hmmmm. She was upbeat and happy.

After I change clothes, W finds me in the kitchen and says she found a crossword puzzle "she needs MY help with" about Disney. What? She's never done crossword puzzles.

Maybe I'm off base (don't think I am), but W seems to be either (a) excited about Disney (we have always gone a couple of times a year since dating), (b) reaching out to me or (c) both.

Don't think I will broach this subject this close to the trip, but I would love it if she would return to "our" bed. If we are in the same bed on the trip, that probably sets up a better approach for her returning to our bed - maybe she will want to after seeing I'm nice to sleep next to. I'm not angling for ML, but if that happens, I will NOT turn it down, if I can remember how. Right now, I would be thrilled just to roll over in the middle of the night and see her next to me.

Any advice on coaxing W back into our bed? Won't say this is a NEED right now, but its certainly a WANT.


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