Saw your thread in newcomers and your military connection caught my eye. My STBXH and I are both Army. He is suffering from severe PTSD since his deployment which has been the main source of our problems IMHO.
It sounds like you are getting some great advice and, for the most part, handling things really great! We all have our down days. I still do, even more than 2 years after the bomb. We are all in good company lol.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2