I am wondering if this has anything to do with those child support papers that came in the mail the other day for h. H took those so I have NO idea what they said or what the consequences might be if h did nothing.
Would they need to serve him some kind of papers?
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"
Thanks SoC. I ripped off the bandaid and left a message. My hands were shaking, but I left a very calm and nice message, to give me a call back. I was so meek on that message, which is really not me, but with shaking and nerves it was the best I could do.
Now I just wait to see what happens from here.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"
Ok I feel a little better now that I left that message. The anxiety has kicked in and is just now settling a little bit. It's amazing how your body reacts.
No call back, so who knows when that will happen. Could be days before I know anything. The wait is on! I will call back again next week if nothing has happened by Monday.
At least I took a step forward.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"
an order of protection is what i got to keep psycho ow away from me,,,,i had to call the sheriff before to check if she was served with it.
perhaps it has something to do with the child support papers, not sure.
be proud that u called, i know how u feel, im going through the same things.
check my thread for my latest drama, im going to post it now.
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09
any news yet? sheriffs deliver summons, court papers like D, forclosure etc or bad news family member hurt or killed but you talked to your H..so hes alive!
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
Anew. No news yet. I left a message for the sheriff and he has not returned my call. I will call again on Monday if I don't hear from him by then.
My h is alive. H even encouraged me to call and find out what he wants. He doesn't think it is about himself.
I guess it couldn't have been too important or I would have recieved a call back. It did take me a few days to get some courage to call, so maybe the sheriff gave up and it wasn't much of anything.
Oh well, the waiting game!
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"
interesting that u didnt hear back...i so wonder what it is about. something tells me it isnt for you
me: 31 H:29 Son:5 m:8 years in november t:10 years first bomb: 10/06 moved home: 3/08 out again 5/08 ow bomb: 4/08, since summer 06 d filed:6/08, on hold 6/08 moved home:3/09 out again 5/09