She would not tell me, and she says, "if I ever speak this way again to anyone that I am out of the house". I said, "great I sure hope no one makes something up again or I am out of the house. I then tell her this whole thing is total bullshit.
Let your wife know that you would not speak like that since you know it will hurt her. Tell her you want to know who said this so you can defend her and your family. Explain that your love life is a private matter and your intimacy is something you only want to discuss with her. You need to set a boundary with your "buddy" who is talking. Stick up for and defend her.
Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
