Seem to be having a bad day today for some reason... the brain is running in circles and I can't seem to get it to stop!
I am going out of town for the weekend. My W, who has been having an A and has not stayed at the house for the last 2 weeks, indicated that she is going to be around for the weekend, and therefore available to feed our dog & cat. I asked her if she was going to be alone, and she said "No". I told her "The Rule" still stands (OW is not permitted in our house), and she said "Of course".
Problem is, she hasn't given me much reason to trust her (duh), and I am obsessing on the fact that in spite of what she says, she will take this opportunity to have her "friend" in the house, as I know she has wanted to do for a while.
I have asked neighbors to note what cars are in the driveway over the weekend. I know there is nothing I can do if she does, and it would be just another symptom of her MLC disease, but that does not stop me from dwelling on it. Help!
Me: 50; Wife: 48 Gay; civil union in NJ no kids M: 15 years, together 17 Bomb (OW) 2/09 (EA 3mos/PA 3mos) ILYBINILWY W out of house, w/OW, in separation talks, nothing filed
