It's not a huge R email, just about health ins. stuff but the tone is so different from "Mr. I'm getting my own insurance and I want complete financial separation."
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Hey Dia,

I'm thinking of going with the Lumenos HSA-compatible plan ($3,000 deductible) for you and me, and SmartSense ($1,500 deductible) for Nick. I have only skimmed the documents so far, and plan on looking into them more before making my decision.

I wanted to forward the documents to you, though, to see if you saw any glaring concerns. My perception is that, out of the three of us, you get the most use out of medical insurance.

Regarding dental: have you been getting checkups? I highly recommend it. If finding delta-takers in the desert has been tough, then maybe you could start when you get to the SB area.

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I was thinking "I'll look these over, thank you."

FYI, I'm not the one who uses the medical ins. most and yes, I am having trouble finding someone who takes our dental down here.

So... why is he all of a sudden worried about my dental health? And keeping me on his ins. (for which I am grateful) doesn't jive with 'complete financial separation'?

???

I have errand to run, so I will be out for a few hours. I'm not responding to this email right away. He can wait a bit.


The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.

My sitch - Divorce Busted!
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