Most definitely we all underestimate how often an EA is not with the opposite sex but can be a same sex friend, a cousin, a parent, etc. I'm not sure how you let her understand this relationships is draining her so she has nothing left for you. If she sits there and gabs with her gf about everything from what she got from the mall to not being able to make the bills this month, then there's nothing left for you. YOU are the one she should be having these conversations with.....if she can get there, I think it will improve your relationship.
