Puppy & Sandi -

Hello! Hope you both are well. Puppy I hope your D20's situation is improving. Things continue to go well with my H. Unfortunately, the situation with his best friend (well now probably ex-best friend) and his wife continues to go downhill. It's amazing how cruel, heartless and uncaring his ex-best friend has become! I think this has been a huge eye opener for my H!

My H and I are growing closer all the time. He's apologized over and over again for us being caught in this situation. He told me he's not feeling real great about himself right now - especially over how this has impacted me.

Our youngest son has been at church youth camp all week and our oldest spends every waking moment with his girlfriend (when he's not working) so we've spent the majority of our time together this week and it's been really good. Lots of good open discussion.

My H came to my work on Tuesday and we went out to lunch. He actually opened the truck door for me! Last night we bought a much needed new cell phone for me. We were testing my voice mail sitting in his truck. His message was "M I love you."

These are small steps I know but they mean a lot. He said last night he'd like to go somewhere other than the lake for our 25th anniversary (actually on the 25th). Yes - we're actually talking about a weekend getaway just the two of us for our anniversary!

Soooo - so far so good for now. Still just taking it one day at a time. Oh yeah and current weight loss stands at 21 lbs!

Last edited by M25; 07/31/09 07:02 PM.