I'm back to the gritting-my-teeth-and-sinking-my-nails-into-my-palms grind today tho. After the insurance note from him, I mentioned that if I got the job with the school system, I'd have very good ins that could cover all of us. He wrote back saying thanks, but he wanted to be responsible for his own ins. and he wanted complete financial separation. My response was simply "Re: finances - I understand."
I am sitting on my hands to keep from pursuing. After the weekend, I am feeling incredibly *amorous* and dying to send him a sweetly naughty message in a thank you note for letting me visit.
But I can't.
Must.
Be.
Patient.
And among other setbacks, the Retro weekend on our anniv. is full. There's one 3 weeks after that, tho.
Last edited by Dia; 07/31/0906:40 PM.
The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.
My sitch - Divorce Busted! http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1804137#Post1804137