I agree its possible or even likely that she has done a drive by or two. But, let's assume there has been no calls, no emails, meetings, etc.

She says she is sorry about the affair and how much it hurt me, our family, ....


She says she wants a divorce not to go be with the OM - who is married with kids. She says she just isn't happy with me. Nothing specific. Just depressed, trapped, miserable...whatever.

Is Retrovaille a good idea for us if she is willing to go; even if she (at this point) still wants a divorce or do I wait for her to want to work on the marriage?

Me 38 / W 37
M 14 yrs
S 11/S8
First Bomb: 3/6/2009 EA
Second Bomb: 6/4/2009 PA
Same House
Separate Rooms