Been a while since I had a thread on here, but I have run into a snag and thought I would get some opinions on what to do.
Wife and I are doing great, really growing as a couple and all is well.
Took my two boys on a week long fishing trip and my wife stayed home. She went to a golf party with a lot of our mutual friends there.
Came back home excited to see her and bam I get the cold shoulder.
After we got the kids to bed she lays down and I ask her what is wrong? She says, "I am mad at you". I say, "why?" "Because your friends said that (Im paraphrasing)you and I do crazy sexual things together and I do not want people to think I am some sort of a nympho." I tell her that "I have done no such thing"(and I have not)and ask, "who spoke to her in this sexual manner."
She would not tell me, and she says, "if I ever speak this way again to anyone that I am out of the house". I said, "great I sure hope no one makes something up again or I am out of the house. I then tell her this whole thing is total bullshit.
OK,now this morning I am pissed, she wont tell me who spoke to her because she says they told her in confidence. But she is being nicer to me today, while I am still well, pissed.
OK, I thought I would go home and tell her, that I cannot apologize for something that I did not do, I cannot make you tell me who is speaking to you in this fashion, so I will try not to worry about the things that I cannot control.
