Kevin, my 9 year anniversary is August 5, and my birthday is August 3. I am right there with you, man. Both nights were always "special" nights for me. After months of nights of no ML, it is HEAVY on my mind. Of course, more heavily on my mind, and more heartbreaking, is that nevermind ML, I won't get the ILY I always got on our anniversary. Sad. But like you said, focus on other things. Easier said than done, but we gotta try, right?


Me-40
W-41
Together-10
M-8
S-6
S-4
Bomb 5/08
Bomb 10/08
Thought things were better, was wrong.
Still living together
Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.