Check this out-- I wrote this a year ago on August 17th.
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*He talked about his work and some changes coming down the pike; one of his reasons for maybe making a certain choice is the option to move elsewhere-like San Fran, San Jose, Florida-practically anywhere. When I asked how serious he was about that, he said he just liked having the option. So I mentioned considering moving to Colorado and he said "Really?" I said I had researched some real estate and he said "yeah, but you were't serious. You won't move." (BIG smile on his face.) I said "Maybe I would. Sounds like you wouldn't give a rats a$$ if I did." and he said "Of course I'd care, but I will love always love you no matter where you live. And you'll always love me."


My H is completely and utterly confident in my love for him. And I have given him no reason not to be.
Does this mean we really SHOULD get a divorce so that maybe he would actually worry I wouldn't be here?
(Just thinking out loud....)


Me-43
H-46
M 12 yrs 7/09
T 15
2 grown kids
bomb 7/05/07
H moved out 8/04/07
11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling
Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D
End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing