So my W met with the 2nd attorney yesterday. I didn't see her until around 11PM. She was over at girlfriends house.
She walked in kissed me and we ended up ML
This morning she says she wants to talk. She likes the new attorney. She wants me to participate in a collaborative D and she doesn't want to litigate.
She told me that she told her friend and her attorney that I am a great guy, great husband, great father. She doesn't know why she is not happy with me and she wished it were different.
I said you know where I am, but I will agree to go talk to a collaborative attorney. I said, I would like you to particpiate in Retrovaille with me.
At first she threw a big fit and said everything has to be on my terms. She told me she cried after we ML last night and how I am trying to control her ...etc.
She left for work and then sent me a text asking to email her the info on Retrovaille and we can discuss it tonight.
Before any comments, she is not seeing OM anymore they haven't had contact since 6/4 when I busted them. I do know she has searched him and his wife on FB, but that's it.
Thanks in advance for the advice!
Me 38 / W 37 M 14 yrs S 11/S8 First Bomb: 3/6/2009 EA Second Bomb: 6/4/2009 PA Same House Separate Rooms
