Hi Gr, I can let you know a few things about having been in a mix of couple and single counselling for the last year and half. The first meeting is a try and figure out why you are here kind of meeting. It will depend on the counselor as to how the questioning and answering goes. We started with a counselor at random that was covered under my plan and she suggested that I go to solo counselling for a bit and after a number of sessions on my own we brought my spouse in and have been doing both individual and couple counselling.
It can be kind of intimidating, so try to relax and proceed slowly and don't be afraid to ask the counselor questions about approaches to things.
I hope it goes well.
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