To answer Mike's question: she has wavered earlier on in the S. The first 6 months maybe? But the last 2-3 months, no movement whatsoever. The last improvement I noticed was right after we came back from our family trip to Disney. That was early June.
And about second thoughts: I've always figured if she was so sure she wanted a D, then she would just get the paperwork done. She will mention a D every 3 months or so, but she never takes action. After I mentioned on Sunday that I am not afraid to move on, date or be alone again, this time might be different.