I guess I'm the romantic jerk here, but Hopeful, I think him moving out, if he does, might be a very good thing for you. When H got his own place, things were taking a better turn and that new place ALL ALONE, BY HIMSELF, really did wonders for our relationship. He wants to joke and call that place his "fortress of solitude" but it's really his "Sad, Depression Fortress of Solitude." Stay strong.
