My answers are this: If she is questioning whether or not to stay in the marriage, then I think some time alone together is a good idea. I am willing and able to view it as just that, the 2 of us spending time together alone away from the stressors of everyday life. Let her see how she feels about me then. I won't lie, I hope it leads to us back together, but I don't want to push her. I want her to want to be in the M because she loves me and wants to be with me, not because of the kids, or the house, or finances. Would I like to make love to my wife again? What do you think? But I have gone without for this long. Waiting it out longer won't kill me. Like I said, if I make it known to her these things, it might take pressure off of her, and let her say yes to just enjoying the dinner together.
Me-40 W-41 Together-10 M-8 S-6 S-4 Bomb 5/08 Bomb 10/08 Thought things were better, was wrong. Still living together Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.
