Thanks for the ideas. I think I will invite her to dinner, and a card with the kids is a good idea. When I bring up the dinner, should I explain that it might be good for us to do something alone together, or something along those lines, or not say anything at all. I don't expect anything romantic at this point. Should I mention that? The only reason I thought of these things is that if she thought I was trying to pressure her back into the M, or even bed her, she might decline. But if I assured her it was just a couple of hours alone away from everything else, maybe she would be more receptive?


Me-40
W-41
Together-10
M-8
S-6
S-4
Bomb 5/08
Bomb 10/08
Thought things were better, was wrong.
Still living together
Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.