I'm also seriously considering a vasectomy. That would probably be unfair if I met someone in the future who wanted kids... I just don't think I could handle this again.
I hope you wait on that for a year or so. I've read you shouldn't make major life decisions when you're going through death or divorce. I think in a year or so you may feel completely differently, esp. if you do wind up with someone that wants kids. And if you feel the same, you could always do it then.
I'm on AD's too; I think it does help you focus on just one day at a time which is prob. good. Karen
