Thanks Mermaid and Snodderly.

Been at this so long (3.5-4yrs) that I don't know what to think. I am so skeptical and cautious and you are right, the only thing i can do is concentrate on myself and the kids.....and our move in september.

As far as H is concerned I talked to him for a few minutes last night (he is only allowed 10 minute calls). He said he just wants to get out of there. I am worried about that. I worry because usually when a therapist tells him something he doesn't want to hear he stops treatment.

Anyway he said he is antsy and wants out. Says his therapist wanted to meet with him and his parents. I wonder if that is what they do when they release someone into the hands of someone else...meet to discuss next steps. Not sure and I didn't want to ask.

If anyone out there has any knowledge of this....please pass it along.

In the meantime I am being cautious. I have been burned so many times by him.

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