A dinner invitation would be pursuing. My 12 year anniversary is this weekend and I am just getting a card for my W and putting a picture of the girls in it and making it about them and what the M brought us. I am only signing it with my name and leaving it at that.

I was advised to do this from 25 and FaithfulH. So I am doing that. It is not pursuing, just recognizing the day for what it brought us.

Then I am going out to dinner with some friends for sushi after.

Kevin

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...