We don't own a house. We had one in Florida and sold it. Little did I know the real reason back then. Anyways, that person which must not be mentioned rents the house from her mom and step dad and I am in an apartment.
I thought D7 was doing better. But this is coming back up again. She also seems to really be having trouble talking out her emotions. She finds it hard to spit out the words regarding her feelings on this. Sometimes she will start a sentence and then stop and say nevermind. I try to continue to draw it out of her to finish her sentence. I'm not always successful. I do tell the girls that both mommy and daddy love them. But D7 in particular seems to be bringing it up more and more all of a sudden again. D11 seems to be doing fine or just not saying anything if she isn't.
I'm not going to bring it up to that person which must not be mentioned. It wouldn't do any good and would just like you said bring resentment and make things worse.
I'm going to have to look back into C again for D7 at the minimum and probably D11 as well.
This isn't easy on them. Heck, it is not easy on me, so how could it possibly be easy on them?
And yes, I am trying to avoid talking about that certain someone.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...