back after 10 weeks of recovery and need some help

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On 2 w just stopped doing the cleaning. If I don't do it it won't get done. She has done laundry.
On 3 yes. I have always done the shopping for all 15 years. Mc said we should switch some things up and she was supposed to do the shopping. Didn't. I went on businss trip and when I got home I was told we were out of toilet paper and milk. As far as meals W has started making dinner again. As far as lunch and breakfast I don't k ow except weekends b/c I cook all meals. The bills are getting out of hand like in most households. The DR bills are killing us. She knows it but keeps spending money like water. Money is a big deal for us. W has the attitude of have faith all things will work out fine. Problem is you have to put in some effort and faith will help you along. Faith alone does not pay the bills I do.
On 4 not much I can beyond what I have been doing. It has been 5 months.
On 6 go back to all dr's oct - dec. Stage 3 kidney disease and possible slow moving cancer in another area. Bone graph in jaw should have taken hold and they will replace the tooth that was taken out.
On 7 Cant afford cobra plan that would cover all this for 3 months unless job I take pays a lot more, real lot more. W school bill will also start hitting during this time as well.
On 8 I will try. This will take some time. I really don't like being alone much. I lived on my own since I was 13 til I got married at 29. Thought last half of life would be with kids and wife. No I have to adjust that thinking. It will take me time to change this.
Will post more later. Thanks agin for the thoughts. It helps so much.