Living, Loving, & Learning one day at a time

[Treese]

HI all.....

Gosh my life has been so hectic lately....here's what's been going on....

I went to the attorney last week....love her...she is sooo nice..found out a few things I didn't know...H's love child gets equal share of his money...that really hurt....not fair but what can I do....I've never even seen the kid and he is taking money from our children...she told me under no circumstance am I to sit down with him and discuss anything...let him do all the work...let him come up with a proposal and tell him I will look it over and get back to him..she also told me that YES i can end up with more than half his pay..he swears I can't...I have not heard from him in over two weeks....that just means a storm is brewing...So, now I just live and see what happens...

Went to Chicago...left last Thursday...son had his last ballgame that night so I missed it but H did text me the game..at that point I had it worked out that my mom and my D22 would care for my son for the weekend...H didn't know I was heading out of town...S12 was to go camping for a few days also but that got rained out...H was going to take son on Saturday and my D17 called and said that my son didn't want to go with his dad and he shouldnt have to....I'm 450 miles from home and I'm crying...I didn't know what to do...my first thought was to get on a plane and fly home to take care of him but my d17 said not to worry she would care for my son along with d22...for me to have a good time...that I deserved it....


So...I texted H from Chicago and said I didnt need him for Saturday...H assumed he went camping...
I ended up going to Wrigley Field for a Cubs game...it was so much fun....got home Sunday evening...

Well....since....my daughter tore down wallpaper in spare room and helped me paint...God love her....we found her wedding gown...it's gorgeous....and get this...

While she was in her dress....modeling...the song that came on the radio was...Three times a Lady....the song my H dedicated to me on our wedding day....I teared up and looked at my mom who was doing the same....what are the odds....it's such an old song and for it to come on at that very moment...wow....

So, I haven't heard from H at all....this morning I get a text from him asking if he can have S12....I haven't depended on him so my son asked to go camping again with his friend and I said yes.....he has a ball....I want him to be a kid...so I just texted that back to my H and of course I got no response....Was I wrong to let son go? I didn't know H would want him tmrw...I haven't heard from him.....Why do I feel bad about it? and again....as soon as i saw the text come through my heart was pounding....It still continues to amaze me how they completely write us off....I mean they dont even check to see if we are okay

My mom called last night....my dad who was in that terrible accident a few months ago lost his job....he almost got killed working for this company for 35 years and this is how they treat him....

It's never ending.....