Thanks, Cat, long post but I`m trying to journal here as I can`t anywhere else with H snooping! And I need to keep track of things. yeah, I`m ok with last night. Feel I`ve set another boundary. Couldn`t leave the room though as he`d just take over the bed and wait for me to get back to it and start on me then.
I`m just not taking his verbal abuse anymore. Learned at therapy I`d lost my voice in childhood-no, not literally, but couldn`t stand up for myself and was pushed into the fear place too fast.
Yes, there`s a lot of learning in all of this.
No, no point in telling em what`s going on either.
