Mac, I agree totally w/Serenity.
You're doing well. Except when you over-think. Like me. crazy
For Rescuers like us, not helping does "feel" callous. How could it not? Do it anyway. It's not callous.
Originally Posted By: Mac-ct
Do I show my face in the re-opened Pizza place tomorrow?
And be "normal" in greeting and enjoying?
And risk "upsetting" my W with my attitude?
You should do what you want to do the way you would do it for you.

Gardener

"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac