Ok, my wife knows I have an apartment now and she wants to give me things from our house. I still do not want any of these things in my apartment because it is too painful. She wants to give me OUR bed and I dont want it unless she is sleeping in it with me. She wants to give me things that I bought that she doesnt like. She does not want to follow the 50/50 split of marital assets that our state employs. She says she has no money and yet she is planning on buying a new car,trip to Italy to visit "friend", new house in her mothers neighborhood, new hairstyle, getting a tatto. I feel like she is buying me off with the offer of things from our house.

Things have been going pretty well since I last wrote and we have been friendly but we have always been friendly. How do I approach this touchy subject with her?


Me 35
Wife 34
Two daughters 8 years and 3 years
Bomb 3/30/09
W filed 4/16/09
We met in'92 married in 2000
Divorce final