Cinco, even if she's doing it for you, eventually she'll get something out of it herself. You can't think about sex/sexuality issues 24/7, but talking, & reading brings it up from the bottom of the list and its on your mind more often. Do you know what a Gestalt is? You happen to think about or see something that relates to something else you read or heard awhile ago and have one of those "OH!" moments. When new information is added to the stuff on the back burner & it simmers awhile its amazing what bubbles up.

Tryin' to take care. T-i-r-e-d this week. H has been working 4p to 4 a covering a vacation & I've been either 5:30 to 11 or 1:30 to 7. We barely see each other. I'm filling in till they hire a new full-timer. I hope they hurry so I can go back to being retired and lazy. LOL
Jayce


me: 66
H:60
2 adult sons
2 grandsons
adult daughter deceased 5/05
me:Part time trainer
H: plant suprv.