Thank you everyone for your support. I love you guys. It was determined that ex's father was not paying attention for a split second and drifted into the other lane. Weather conditons nor alcohol were in play. I can't imagine he will ever emotionally get over this.

Ex has my son call me for updates. OW won't allow him to call me is my guess.

Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11