If men/women can't think out loud like I did in my post then what's the point of all this? I'm not second guessing my sitch. I wasn't looking for someone to give me a green light. I do appreciate everything you have posted to me and I respect your infinite wisdom.
Brave - agreed but with a caveat (the same one I gave someone on my thread a short while ago).
The sort of discussions here in this community is not by any means a perfect medium for various reasons.
1. Everything is taken at face value (can't see your expressions, no idea of the sort of mood your in - can't mind read)
2. The time between an original post and the subsequent reply can affect the significance, the meaning, the tone of the "conversation".
3. Everyone is allowed the odd bad day
Conversation should be the preferred way of dealing with all of our woes. Unfortunately we don't have that luxury so we're stuck with this media.
We'll have to live with it and it's ups and downs.