I`ve decided not to wonder why H is snooping. No point in trying to figure out the Alien mind-I`d just get sucked back into helping/controlling/feeling sorry for him again.
Its definitely going to take more than a vibration to raise his energy level too. I`d have to positively rock to shift him.
But I`m working on rocking just for me and the kids. He can move or stay frozen if he wants!
Right now, I`m all about setting boundaries with MrSnoop/Angry. I now my detaching is driving him nuts and since anger is THE huge issue for him I have to find new ways to protect me and the kids and let him know its not acceptable to me.
Tantric sex-definitely go google! Coincidentally my VBF in all of this M chaos rang me yesterday to see if I was interested in going with her to a place that does tantric sex massage.Of course taking her up on that offer would be a huge 180 for me would hit the "be myterious button" the "be freakin hot" button and the "GAL your ass off" button.
