OMG W2S you always know when I need hot towels blush It's so good to hear from you again.

I'm really cross with S16 this morning. Last night he TMd me and asked if he could stay here after he had been out. After his dawn return last weekend I was very reluctant to say yes as I had to be up early for work this morning. So my first reply was that it depended on what time he was going to be home and gave my reasons. After several TMS backwards and forwards I agreed to him staying with the caveat that I wasn't that happy with the time he had set (4am) but providing he stuck to this he could come. I did highlight to him that this was his one chance to prove to me that I could trust his word. Needless to say I couldn't cos its now 7.30am and he still isn't home. I did TM him at 6 when my alarm went off and told him not to ask for this favour again stressing that I deserved more respect than what he had again shown me.

W2S you judging from your post you might think I did the wrong thing BUT I'm really fed up with the lack of respect my two younger children give me and I think it's time I showed them that I won't tolerate it anymore.

Right or wrong it's done now.

Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15