Right now, as she's packing to join him, you don't have anything to lose. But honestly if you tell her you are taking a stand and she has disrespected you, she doesn't care, because she's already leaving.
But this IS about YOU now. This time, I gotta agree with the others. But you have to be calm about it. Push her further out the door. Tell her she's right. She really does need to leave because this is just unacceptable. Tell her if she leaves him, you're open to really working on the marriage. You care for her, but you agree this is best. AND DON'T FALTER.
Then you are going to do more than GAL, you are going to do a bit of work here as directed by these guys.
In this case, their advice is good DBing. It's the AFTER THE LAST RESORT technique.
Last edited by sgctxok; 07/31/0905:06 AM.
sg Love is PATIENT, love is KIND, LOVE never fails / DB since 2001
