Thanks cpfullofhope for your kind words. I have read DR and it was very helpful. I do have to buy my own copy as the one I read was borrowed from the library. I have been spending a lot of time getting to know who I am and doing fun activities with the kids. Yes, detaching has been very difficult for me. My H and I have been together forever and I do miss him since I only see him once every 6 weeks now.

How is your sitch going? Do you have children also?

Me:34
H:34
D:7
D:6
D:3
T:20years
M:10years
Bomb: Feburary 2009
Separated: May 2009
EA confirmed March 2010