Wifey thanks. C is for cancer in this case. I have been very steady and consistant in all changes. I believe you are right in that it took years to get to where we are andit will take more time than 10 weeks to make the M better. It is the reason I felt W shouldn't have quit MC this week and the C said it as well years to get here years to get back to healthy Marriage.

Right now W is making a point to go running with me every morning. W was upset that I went this morning without her. There was no indication that she was coming so I left at the normal time. W make a point of talking to me about it this evening and explaining why & she is setting her alarm earlier so it doesn't happen again.

Thank you for all your thoughts it is very helpful. I have a lot to think through. I get the kids today for an extended lunch time while W goes to register for school. It should be interesting.


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Grenade 01/10/09 1st bomb 03/16/09
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