Sandi2, Coach, Puppy and Gucci help!

[The Wifey]

Puppy,

I'm confused at the actions from my W. Her threats and anger towards me based on the stance I've taken in not providing her financial aid.

Then you haven't done enough reading... this is so script it isn't funny.

I have not read many sitchs where the wife is applying this kind of pressure to the LBS.

Is it just a verbal stand off or what?

Just lay back and see what happens. I've always had a great deal of patiences but lately it's running on empty.

Dealing with her has become a pain in the a$$, just so different from the past.

Just looking for anything new to try I guess.

Try this:

Dear in the headlights look and total silence. Let her scream herself silly. No response. None. (At least not verbally. You are allowed to run her over with a big *ss 4x4 in your mind, which will help you keep the deer in the headlights look. Just don't smile, because it gives that all away.)