You know what? You didn't think like this until you went out dancing & flirting and found a woman who would give you the time of day, and now you are suddenly having second thoughts about your MR. Cr@P! I have read this so many times from LBH's till it makes me sick! All you were looking for was somebody to tell you that it was okay to go screw around!

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This has been on my mind for the past 2 weeks.

Is it the thought that a W can go out and test the waters, find OM, become WAW and have no regards as to what the LBS feels deep down (total betrayal). The WAW spouse shows no remorse and continues with their shanigans.

But in the same sense of fairness, let say x amount of time has gone by and the LBS heart has harden and WAW has not moved closer to LBS. The LBS is at the point where closure is needed.

He needs to feel those same words of affirmation and desires someone that would treat him with the same respect, love and addmiration that WAW is recieving from OM.

What if the LBS were testing the waters in the same fashion as WAW?

And with the laws of attraction being what they are and god works in mysterious ways, someone presents themself to LBS that fits into his world and fills his core needs and he fills hers.

How would WAW feel?

How would WAW react?

Would it turn the sitch in a new direction?

Does LBS care anymore?

Does any of it really matter?

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!